On winter nights, it’s only natural to warm your bedroom with some good old-fashioned body heat. What better way to make sex even hotter than with role-playing? This can be as simple as doctor and nurse uniforms or as complex as you want it, with acting, bondage, the works. Maybe you want to flirt like strangers in the produce section and then take a “stranger” home for a “one-night stand.” Everybody has to start somewhere, and you don’t have to be an expert to make it work for you. All you have to do is make it fun and arousing for each other.
If you’ve never gotten into role-playing before, don’t be ashamed to keep it simple. Lots of people would love to see their partner in uniform, so why not start there? You can be the teacher and your partner can wear a schoolgirl skirt, if that’s your thing, or maybe you can dress as a postal worker making a special delivery for your wife. If you’re too nervous about going to an adult store, there are plenty of ways to buy your costumes online.
Let’s say you’re doing the doctor and patient scenario. Whoever is the more dominant partner should probably play the doctor… you could, for example, ask your patient to open some buttons on that blouse so you can listen to her heart with your stethoscope. If she’s the one doing the seduction, then she could pull that stethoscope down into her cleavage or ask for a breast exam. There are no rules here. Remember, it’s supposed to be fun.
By this time, things should be getting hot and you will know exactly what to do next. If you still need a little more inspiration, have the patient take control if the doctor gets too shy, or vice versa.
After you’ve enjoyed one role-playing scenario together, it’s bound to lead to more. It will show you new turn-ons that you never even knew you had, and you’ll learn more about your partner’s desires as well. Even if your sex life is already volcanic, role-play can make it even better.
You don’t even need to do this with a partner. You can use sexy uniforms to put yourself into a mood and come up with scenarios that add that extra sexual tension solo! Get on your hot firefighter attire and douse the flames in your Fifi. Role-play can be used as a new tool with a partner, solo, or even multiple partners to allow yourself to experience more positive tension in the bedroom and take your current sexual routine to the next level.
Now you know where to start and have the ability to introduce new and sexy material into the bedroom that will allow for an explosion of pleasure the next time you need to get your rocks off. Go get ‘em, cowboy!Back